SHAH ABDUL WAHAB

ایک گاؤں میں ایک باپردہ خاتون رہتی تھیں  جن کی ڈیمانڈ تھی کہ شادی اس سے کریں گی جو انہیں باپردہ رکھے گا ایک نوجوان اس شرط پر نکاح کے لیے رضامند ہوجاتا ہے دونوں کی شادی ہوجاتی ہے ۔ وقت گذرتا رہتا ہے یہاں تک کہ ایک بیٹا ہوجاتا ہے ۔ ایک دن شوہر کہتا ہے کہ میں سارا دن کھیتوں میں کام کرتا ہوں ۔ کھانے کے لیے مجھے گھر آنا پڑتا ہے جس سے وقت کا ضیاع ہوتا ہے تم مجھے کھانا کھیتوں میں پہنچادیا کرو بیوی راضی ہوجاتی ہے ۔۔ وقت گذرتے گذرتے ایک اور بیٹا ہوجاتا ہے جس پر شوہر کہتا ہے کہ اب گذارا مشکل ہے تمہیں میرے ساتھ کھیتوں میں ہاتھ بٹانا پڑے گا یوں وہ باپردگی سے نیم پردے تک پہنچ جاتی ہے اور تیسرے بیٹے کی پیدائش پر اس کا شوہر مکمل بے پردگی تک لے آتا ہے وقت گذرتا رہتا ہے یہاں تک اولاد جوان ہوجاتی ہے ایک دن یونہی بیٹھے بیٹھے شوہر ہسنے لگتا ہے بیوی سبب پوچھتی ہے تو کہتا ہے کہ بڑا تو پردہ پردہ کرتی تھی آخر کار تیرا پردہ ختم ہوگیا ۔۔ کیا فرق پڑا پردے اور بے پردگی کا زندگی تو اب بھی ویسے ہی گذر رہی ہے وہ بولتی ہے کہ تم ساتھ والے کمرے میں چھپ جاؤ میں تمہیں پردے اور بے پردگی کا فرق سمجھاتی ہوں شوہر کمرے میں

A men married to a beautiful girl. He loved her very much. Once she developed a skin decease. Slowly she started to loose her beauty. It is so happened that one day her husband left for a tour while returning he had an accident. In the accident he damaged his eyes and lost his eyesight. However their married life continued as well. But as day passed she lost her beauty gradually. Blind husband didn't know this and their was no different in their married life. He continued to love her and she also loved him very much. One day his wife slipped from stairs and died due to head injury. Her death brought him great sorrow. He finished all her last rite and wanted to leave that town.  A men from behind called him and said, now how will you be able to walk all alone? All these days your wife used to help you. He replied: I am not a blind. I was pretending to be blind because if she knew I could see her ugliness it would have pained her more than her disease. So, I pretend to be blind

The title arose a question : Did school fails you or you failed School? School is failing entrepreneurs every single day because it's not build for entrepreneurs, it's build for workers. We are being taught to play within the lines. There is nothing being taught that maps to the entrepreneurial market. As a matter of fact my biggest cynicism when I sit across an entrepreneurs today as if they are to successful at school. I probably look at grads starting start up right now with more of negative light than I do somebody who wasn't as good, Why?. Why, Because what I have learned over the last few years and by the way I have taken a step back on this because there are too many entrepreneurial friends who have gone to great school that have been successful. So this is not a blanket statement, but I will tell you that in a world of private schools, in a world of mommy and daddy having a lot of connections. That when you go from 12,15, 18 years of the transport system an

When it comes to success, it’s easy to think that people blessed with brains are inevitably going to leave the rest of us in the dust. But new research from Stanford University will change your mind (and your attitude). Psychologist Carol Dweck has spent her entire career studying attitude and performance, and her latest study shows that your attitude is a better predictor of your success than your IQ. Dweck found that people’s core attitudes fall into one of two categories: a fixed mindset or a growth mindset. With a fixed mindset, you believe you are who you are and you cannot change. This creates problems when you’re challenged because anything that appears to be more than you can handle is bound to make you feel hopeless and overwhelmed. People with a growth mindset believe that they can improve with effort. They outperform those with a fixed mindset, even when they have a lower IQ, because they embrace challenges, treating them as opportunities to learn somet