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FIRST CRUSH WITH A SILLY GIRL

Hi! Peeps all cool! So, today I am writing about a boy who started his life under his strict PATHAN father. His father wish was my all sons and daughters should be Hafiz-e-Quran, but sometimes you have not kind of skills to cop up with situations besides this when ALLAH gives you children that become challenge for you, we called it sometime examination by ALLAH to Human being.
So the story is about a guy son of same person discussed above. He was dump and deaf about his life, his plan were to do the same as his father is giving order, he constantly listening to these sentences like (What your parents think is better for you if that is not in your power). Because everyone has his own capabilities and ALLAH has send all of us with different features. The life starts with schooling when he was 4 years, the first son of family, many responsibilities to be given. Starts with schooling and Madrasa, he continues both being in school and also prepares to become Hafiz. For Hifz he left school of one year in the end completed Hifz in the age of 8 ½ years. Now he was shifted by his father to schooling and he started from the same class where he left, finally in 2010 he completed his Matriculation with top mark obtainer in school. In a meanwhile he was awarded as best student of the same school. He spend his whole life as a son of Islamic Scholar (But he was not) and without any girl in his school. Then comes Intermediate same thing here no co-education.
Because of unavailability of career counseling he was confuse what to choose now, as he was could find place for him which discipline to choose. Finally he chose BBA, because it is expensive and good scope. From the same time we were like we are getting education to earn money, which was flop thinking.
Then, Getting admission in University with 70% of girls in university was like he is in Mars or Jupiter with unfamiliar and thirst full eyes and hearing that If you are single till two semester then you will be single the whole university life. He started focusing on studies by throwing these rubbishes aside and the best gift was he gets involved into social work. He started social work when he was in his 3rd semester, where he enjoyed networking, meeting new people, serving humanity, working for education in his underdeveloped area.
In 2013, he heard about free English language opportunity provided by the renown donor and step ahead. He was rejected because he got highest 99 marks in the test, but in advance level he requested to administration to enrolled him not for himself but for the students who were enrolled because to make environment with students. He then started classes in Institute change the theme of teaching with the help of teacher because he wanted to see these students to be familiar with language skills. There is a saying “ If you think for others, you will get naturally”.
This was the day when he first met with his crush, gazing her, gestures and postures trying everything to impress her. That scene was new to everyone. In a meanwhile gossips started, then proposed her and finally he get answer YES! Here he thought that I have found a girls, who will take care of me, asking me about me, tease me but…. Everything went contradictory, because what he was expecting he himself has to do all the things. The things were very difficult but he loved her so he was facing challenges.


Now point is why she is silly? Because she thinks that she should not love the same guy. Why? Her parents will not accept him because he is Pathan. And Pathans are harshest cast in the world. The point of narrating the story is to guide him is this really difficult for her to marry? Consider the madness she can’t marry him but she loves him deeply. She likes him but he is Pathan. She asks to leave her but she can’t live with him. 

If they both are busy someone has to sacrifice his/her busyness, but when boy sacrifice it's his responsibility and when girl sacrifice then OMG!! She brings stars from the sky. If boy forget text message she will  taunt that i am now old, if opposite then "Sorry, i forgot to tell you i have alot of work to do, was busy in home chores. If they both promises to tell each other about leaving somewhere then a boy tells everything either about Bathroom/Washroom but if it's her turn then "Its not important telling you everything. Ins't this rubbish?

You will be thinking that the title is only related with last paragraph but when you LOVE silly girl/boy you will like him.



Thanks for reading his life!!! 

Though Life :/

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  2. Frustration is still there. Be hopeful and nice to see that you are spending your time in useful activity that will shape you more.

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