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How I grew up taking Religion for granted - Maybe you did too?

How I grew up taking Religion for granted - Maybe you did too?
                                       
1. Beta Lying is bad but if that specific uncle shows up, tell him I am not at home. (So indirectly we communicate lying can be practiced if we want to or feel like it.)

2. Sharam Nahi Aati Kya Dekh Rahey Ho?! (Don't you dare to look at me) and then we have to wait for a family shaadi to see exactly the things we were told not to see.

3. Beta we should follow Sunnah & the Holy Quran to guide us with life.
Me: I want t get married yara!
Dad: Yea just get established and settled finically first phir dekhte hain. (Get establish financially then we will see)

4. Rizk Aur Maut Maqarar Hai (Food & Death is in the hand of destiny) BUT beta becomes a doctor, they earn more and if that didn’t work, does Chartered Accountancy or whatever will allow you to make more money.

5. And the family Mufti's (That one person in every family who is so interested in nitpicking and demotivating a youngster doing something positive.)

While growing up, we have all experienced such events and many more and questioning in our society is so scary that we can ask a million questions about everything now but when you have a question about religion, you keep it in your heart and with time it becomes a habit of ignorance.


Let ourselves be the Shift !!!

Shah Abdul Wahab

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