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WHAT PEOPLE WILL THINK & SAY

We sometime don’t think about ourselves and think on this sentence “what people will think and say” which is big problem for us. Many question arises which we don’t think of i.e. what is good for us? What think will get us to benefit? Besides these question we think “what people will think and say”?

Mostly each of our progress, inspiration, motivation has a source of hidden story behind, and to achieve that we need to be very motivated, inspire and to show up bravely. But we often hear these kinds of sentence from our friends, our parents and peers that “what people will think and say” Become a Doctor or Engineer because these people feel happy and survive in this universe. If you don’t made it then “what people will say”? If you do something different then “what people will say”? If you go for Art or Humanities then “what people will say”? If boy/girl, he or she chose their partner then “what people will say”? How have dressed up? “What people will say”? How are you behaving ? “what people will say”?

I have some questions… Who these people are? Do they help you, when you are in trouble, do we found them?  When we feel alone, do we found them there? When we need any one or protection, do we found them there? Do these people exist only to de-motivate us? Do they stop us to go for best and purposeful life?  

If we think, these people only be busy in nick picking you if you are doing anything good by raising such kind of question i.e. what are you doing? Will you do it? How can it be possible?
If they appear into an event or ceremony, they would raise questions on meal and giving you such advices that will degrade you. If they attend any marriage ceremony, they will enjoy the meal that too free of cost but then start giving analysis on Bride/Groom. i.e. His eyes are small, Her chin is long, ohh such a big couple it is.. Such kind of irrelevant analysis. They will only appear in happy moment to ruin it but not in sad instants.

They don’t have the ability and guts to get best out of their lives but pull you to ground level because they only like and enjoy to stop you.

SO DON’T BE AFRAID OF THESE PEOPLE AND START ENJOYING YOU LIFE FREELY BECAUSE LIFE IS YOURS NOT THEIR AND THIS IS A GIFT TO YOU BY ALMIGHTY ALLAH. 

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  1. Rehman29 September 2017 at 19:50

    happy to read this we can have a live session on that brother

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